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but I did say it and I think it's important.

I do it myself sometimes. Sex is complicated.)

I don't mean to discount the experiences of others. I get that many guys

to which I say: Bah. I'm occasionally into

I am not interested in your armchair theories about why this happens;

but I really hate swallowing. In the past I've found a variety of creative ways to

here's an example of a common sexual thing that I don't like: swallowing after

then we're not moving forward; we're just creating

because one of the big goals of being sexpositive

but I generally prefer to speak from personal experience

I say this for the women and girls who believe that they have to do it.""

I get afraid that I've contributed to a nightmare world where women

I also sometimes worry that other women will read my

I do not exist just as your fantasy fodder!""

I am not your sex-crazy nympho dreamgirl!

I have to fight myself not to perform. But it's worth it -- because the

much more difficult to get what I actually want out of a sexual

because I know men will reward me for it

where my sexuality was mostly performance: an image

and I knew what my reactions and expressions were