Every indexed document

and my sexual journey is far from over (yay!). There

than it was for me to learn what I actually wanted from sex.

and not all the time! But enough that there were plenty of times

and I concluded this: We felt like we didn't own our sexuality.

I was into chastity when it was underground!"" As it happened

a year where no sex happened in their lives...

I had a couple straight lady friends who did this thing where

I find myself questioning why it's such an important and

orgasms are no exception. Even orgasms can

in years of writing about sex and gender

I still closed my eyes and flicked through

and I was into having sex with him. But it became

I'll close this post with an anecdote about a guy I dated a while back who

I've found myself occasionally having orgasms

like... if I need to get some work done.)

it's pretty awesome. (Although it's very

so I'll give it a shot.).... Especially when I'm doing BDSM

I can already tell this is going to get complicated... but hey

and very few of my most pleasurable sexual encounters have included my

I estimate that most of my current sexual encounters don't include my