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actually: I've never had such an intense BDSM experience in which

sobbing so hard that my ribs felt like they were coming loose.

he gathered me up in his arms. I broke into a thousand

I started to take deeper breaths. And my mind stayed there

he simply caught me by a leg or an upper arm or my hair

when I read the original ""violent sex"" article

someone would have noticed by now.) And just in case it needs to be said

and I don't think her method of coping with her PTSD is

a reporter named Mac McClelland who worked in Haiti made a splash by

or anything else -- is absolutely horrible. I'd rather be left on the edge of

but that's actually surprisingly rare. Yet BDSM often... gets my blood

the claws were banjo picks. Do-It-Yourself BDSM is awesome.)

I wound up the encounter and pulled away from my partner. We

but that might be a side effect instead of the act's inherent nature.

needs or ""fetishes"" that aren't sexual

but there are definitely times when I want BDSM

I myself had a couple relationships where we were

who noted dryly that: ""One-way streets are a social construct. That doesn't

we will continue to be conquered. As long as ""vanilla"" people are afraid

used to say: ""Divide and conquer."" When consensual sexualities are scared