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it's important to pay attention to what is

without making claims about each partner's preferences. (These

I clearly recall shouting at him: ""You better hurt me

or maybe they're into a little bit of submission and a lot of masochism

but sometimes people are submissive without being

or whatever. The same thing goes for submission: sometimes people are

relevant assumption is that dominant people always enjoy inflicting

it gets really silly when we start thinking about switches -- people

and they make people feel as though they're ""bad at submission"" or ""bad

then you would be serving my dinner right now instead

or women are ""inherently"" submissive. It's a clusterfuck! Thomas

people will sometimes act like dominant people are socially

weird dynamic is the ""one true way"" thing. Some people act like

I know!) One of those interesting things is stereotypes. Also interesting:

I had breakfast with my partner. We hugged and split up

my partner said. ""That explains why you

even as I slipped into the familiar emotional cycle

let me tell you about what happened after I broke up with a

I find that I'm kinda okay with both casual sex and casual BDSM

I'm not sure why I would want to combine vaginal sex with an experience like