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like Christian Grey in Fifty Shades of Grey

and it's also frequently irrelevant to questions about how

or whether submissive women's preferences are philosophically Deep And

but my conclusion is that I don't care. It doesn't actually matter

in which everyone is demanding to know What It All Means

I hear a lot of allegations about how ""all"" (or ""almost all"") women are

blaming women for having sexual desires at

I almost never care to track what Everyone Is Talking About Right This Minute!!

yet independent of the latest craze. For one

but Fifty Shades gave me an opportunity to

when everyone and their brother was talking about the

and tactics like safewords provide a fallback in case there's a

like with safewords and/or other tactics. Some people

unless we allow it to be. If we weren't constantly forced to

uncomplicated misogyny! Female sexual submission isn't even close to a

because they are decent guys and they are

although they aren't the only tactic. What really burns me

I was betraying women's liberation by being sexually submissive; this seems

is seen as broken and problematic and screwed-up and a sign of

everything looks like a nail -- sometimes including our own