Every indexed document

'Use the condom'... we will never see the

agreed: ""There has never been equal emphasis on

A fidelity campaign does seem worth a try

Perhaps the topic seems weighted with moral judgment; perhaps Western

a 2004 New York Times Magazine article by Helen Epstein

a man's manhood is judged by the number of women he can keep.""

who keep only one partner. The majority of men I come across are in

Akua Djanie -- who moved to England at age 10

highly desirable relationship formation. (Polygyny is the

polygyny isn't exactly the default -- but

seeing all these men partnered with multiple women

half the tactics I share are filched from the BDSM

but I think we've got a unique window on it. When I run sexual

because it's more dangerous for us to make assumptions about where our

then people wouldn't have to put so much effort

but the English words are mild compared to their siZulu equivalents.

even those rich men who don't take multiple wives almost always

and his father King Sobhuza had 70. (Yes. Seventy.) Here

because it's the most complicated by far.

then try living in a place where the big men have