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and one or two relationships that are primary

but that's harder than it looks... I don't

I guess. Monogamy isn't necessary for these

they maintain a low level of mutual arousal at all times. I have no

where the partners involved choose not to have

people feel like they just have to focus on one

I respect your jealousy."" Which is not to say that monogamy is always

I just felt awful when I got jealous; I couldn't get past it. I felt like he

or because I was told not to be jealous. In fact

jealousy is managed through very detailed

I've actually only flirted with one brother. So far.)

whereas he felt most people never consider polyamory deeply

my most adamantly polyamorous friend used to call me

I had a very strong monogamous preference for years. I knew that

and it bites people later if they want to

rather than monogamous by inclination or what have you.

when monogamy is explicitly discussed in the mainstream currently

like Clarisse has done here. I don't think I've ever seen

and I got a lot of positive commentary too.

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