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I get nervous that the guys who are going to be willing to talk about and

even if they don't admit it to themselves -- and will be

my appreciation for polyamory only increased as I

the ""polyamory as commitment-phobia"" stereotype is so strong

why not have a relationship? On the other hand

if I go on a few dates with a 28-year-old guy who

maybe I'll decide it's my ideal relationship formation

I might compromise to monogamy eventually

or ignoring anyone's needs. And being polyamorous doesn't

if necessary -- it's not about having no

and then talk about it more when the topic of the relationship comes

and one of my partners gets involved with

for that matter). I am responsible for what I do

and it doesn't make me best friends with

but on occasion I've felt like I was getting sucked into the couple's problems

then you must also expect to interact with his spouse. In other words

my preference for polyamory presents some challenges

it may be something I eventually compromise on

could become a child-rearing relationship

it's important to me to not feel as though my partners expect me to settle down