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and more fragile. Some people don't have the time or inclination to create a whole

of course. But I would offer this: I think that blunt instruments

if one partner wants to get a new partner

I think people have plenty of other reasons for

which won't always overlap perfectly with your own. Don't assume that your

you're dating someone who you like and trust (if you're not

good faith and respect. If you're feeling jealous

because jealousy is one of the most intense

rather than encouraged or exalted. For polyamory theorists

and encourages them to be ""on top of their game."" This

I found a number of discussions in that community that praise competitive

the potential discussions become that much more combustible.

a turn-on. Most people have a hard enough

like in my example above. It's complicated!

my respect for him skyrocketed. It's hard for people to keep track of themselves

and I just don't like to think about it because it makes

and when I specifically acted in ways that made it obvious I was with him --

but I quickly noticed that he changed the subject

or because I was told not to be jealous. In fact

I'm trying to come to a better understanding of all these dynamics. I also