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but we do have detailed conversations about stuff like

was I being influenced by that stereotype? Or was I just

I have angrily defended my poly friends from it for years! (Even

I had some doubts about being monogamous. I was

I later recalled that actually -- at the beginning of my

my most recent poly leanings came up only because I

and I talked about how new it is for me to feel

and my confusion about that urge. I talked

I wrote a post called ""Am I Evolving Away From Monogamy?"" in which I

especially when we're pushing our limits. Self-awareness must

I do believe that we should consciously make space in ourselves for

or dealing with situations that are more than they can handle

then that can be a bad sign. I think that when people are

but I will also say this: if you don't have a clue what's going on in your head and

then you might consider giving your partner a

then I think people who want to play those games would do well to learn

but there are plenty of others. There's also a huge emphasis on

there's a huge emphasis on careful communication tactics -- safewords are the

and unspoken veto power. This resulted in maneuvering that

perfect relationship in exchange for a more stable one. Sometimes it's simply