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listening. I'm pretty sure I did a good job helping him pick up

he said to me: ""No one has ever touched me so deeply

especially if the people involved are planning to do it

from safewords to checklists to keeping simultaneous journals.

crying and/or comforting. From the inside

aftercare often looks like a combination of snuggling and

that's something to warn your partner about ahead of time.

although I've always felt that if you ""don't do

the same way S&M isn't always extraordinary. Not

it's much more than that. It is the time after the action when the

especially the ones that involve fighting and

but there's a lot more to it. Bodily violence sometimes creates a mental

I didn't feel like the study got anywhere near the heart of S&M and how S&M

if S&M is being studied by Real Researchers

they could have just asked us how it felt. On

or that anyone should have treated you in that way. That can be the

taking that out and playing with it may not be a necessary part of

BDSM can be a safe way to explore unpacking some of this desire

to be seen and understood at the root of all your emotion

is that many of us are designed to want more intimacy once intimacy has been