Every indexed document

and there are plenty of first-person accounts around the Internet.

because all I could see was someone saying ""I

so beating a loved one to catharsis might just be the same sort of

the experience of inflicting pain and of receiving pain has cleared the air

and then stopping. I have felt the sweetness of those moments of

hold you in my arms and feed you tea and

the idea of being hit by another person makes us want to jump up and

a commenter named FormerWildChild wrote:

around his guidance and force and demands. Almost

I cross-posted an article about an intense S&M experience to the blog

and it's so incredibly strong. I swear it's a

yet unable to trust him. It's not a good place to

intense S&M with someone I can't trust. And if that happens

I've become more aware of how quickly S&M can affect me. It's entirely

even the casual ones. (As more stories of S&M and abuse become public

I've become much warier of doing S&M without

we will do that when I'm more alert. But for now

at which point I try to get across a message

I'm often too busy processing to think carefully about what

the person who was dominant during the encounter is