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when we know each other really well. Right now

I repeated. I hesitated. ""What do you mean?"" His eyelashes flickered

he breathed. ""In exactly the way that I want.""

I pulled back and simply observed the intensity flooding through

and his back arched. It was the clearest invitation I'd

I thought... except that his main experience with

kissing him. I watched him give up his body to the

I watched him. Watched his extraordinary attentiveness. Eventually we got to a

even I don't want all-S&M-all-the-time. I smiled directly

because the last thing I want is for one of my partners

I thought. Sometimes guys date me and get anxious that

he touched my face and kissed me. I felt my eyelashes

yet. But his instincts for delivering pain and watching

I asked him to inflict light pain on me. Very light. I

or make any assumptions about him... but I

and something else: that the quality of his attention -- often

there's a rhythm behind everything he does.

creative thinker. There are layers to him

the feminist reaction to Confessions of a Pickup Artist Chaser was quite

No."" Yet things I discussed in previous sections of this article – such as ""negs